Saturday, December 29, 2007
Something's not quite right....
....about having all our windows open and it's 70+ degrees outside on December 29. Not for the northern hemisphere, anyway!
Wednesday, December 26, 2007
Love letter from my husband
I worked 3-11 tonight and when I got home, there was the sweetest note on the bathroom mirror from the sweetest man I know. (Christmas Day is also his birthday; this year he turned 35.) So anyway...it was written in Spanish, as that's the language of his heart, but I loved it enough to translate it so you all can catch a glimpse of the man I'm married to.
Thank you, BethAnn, for making me a birthday cake. Thank you so much for putting up with me all these years we've been married. May God bless you always.
You know, you're a precious woman, and I'm a not-so-good man [which I, BethAnn, totally disagree with]. You're a woman that perhaps many men would like as a wife and I know that I don't always value the beautiful things in you [yes, he does].
Thank you so much for all the ways you have helped me. Sleep well. I love you.
Merry Christmas, all, and Happy Birthday to the love of my life. Will post pictures when I get them uploaded.
Thank you, BethAnn, for making me a birthday cake. Thank you so much for putting up with me all these years we've been married. May God bless you always.
You know, you're a precious woman, and I'm a not-so-good man [which I, BethAnn, totally disagree with]. You're a woman that perhaps many men would like as a wife and I know that I don't always value the beautiful things in you [yes, he does].
Thank you so much for all the ways you have helped me. Sleep well. I love you.
Merry Christmas, all, and Happy Birthday to the love of my life. Will post pictures when I get them uploaded.
Wednesday, December 19, 2007
Tuesday, December 18, 2007
Stupid, stupid, stupid
I just don't have words for this. It makes me so freaking angry.
I've got nothing against Border Patrol per se, and surely this is a very small minority, but it is absolutely unconscionable.
I've got nothing against Border Patrol per se, and surely this is a very small minority, but it is absolutely unconscionable.
Saturday, December 15, 2007
Thursday, December 13, 2007
Thanks, Photobucket!
I have been diddling around on Photobucket.com and this is what I found. I have many more saved to my 'puter but this is a small sampling.....enjoy. I'm guessing you've figured out that I did a LOTR search. :)
New (cool) immigration website
I just found a new website on immigration and it full of very useful information, even to someone like me who kind of knows a little bit about the issue. I've posted a link to it here also.
Daddy comes home tomorrow! Daniel and I will be so happy to see him!
Daddy comes home tomorrow! Daniel and I will be so happy to see him!
Wednesday, December 12, 2007
La Virgen de Guadalupe
Today in Mexico is El Día de la Virgen de Guadalupe - Virgin of Guadalupe Day. Arguably, it's the 'highest', most important holiday in the Mexican calendar, as she is Mexico's patron saint. Mexicans often refer to her as La Morenita - the little brown one.
Several centuries ago, in 1531 to be exact, she supposedly appeared to an Indian peasant named Juan Diego (who was later canonized by John Paul II) over the course of 3 days from 12/9-12/12. According to the story, Juan Diego was walking from his town into the city (close to what's now Mexico city) where he saw the apparition of Mary and she spoke to him in Nahuatl (language of the Aztecs) telling him to build a church in her honor on that spot. He took this message to the city's priest, who then asked him for a sign. Mary supposedly told Juan Diego to gather some flowers from the site where she'd instructed the church be built. He did so, and took them back to the priest in his sack, the flowers fell out of his sack and the imprint left on the cloth supposedly looked something like this:
Several centuries ago, in 1531 to be exact, she supposedly appeared to an Indian peasant named Juan Diego (who was later canonized by John Paul II) over the course of 3 days from 12/9-12/12. According to the story, Juan Diego was walking from his town into the city (close to what's now Mexico city) where he saw the apparition of Mary and she spoke to him in Nahuatl (language of the Aztecs) telling him to build a church in her honor on that spot. He took this message to the city's priest, who then asked him for a sign. Mary supposedly told Juan Diego to gather some flowers from the site where she'd instructed the church be built. He did so, and took them back to the priest in his sack, the flowers fell out of his sack and the imprint left on the cloth supposedly looked something like this:
There are several different theories about this: 1) this image of Mary is darker skinned than the colonizing Spaniards depicted her, so Mary spoke to the indigenous peasants of Mexico and appeared to them in a form they could relate to; or that 2) this was their way of combining Catholicism and indigenous religions, as this image supposedly looked somewhat like the Aztec goddess Tonantzin.
Personally, we don't celebrate it as we're not Catholic, and we believe that there is only one mediator between God and man. But to understand Mexicans, you have to understand this holiday and the story behind it. The great Mexican writer Octavio Paz once said that "the Mexican people, after more than two centuries of experiments, have faith only in the Virgin of Guadalupe and the National Lottery."
Where do you see the Virgin of Guadalupe today in Mexican culture? Everywhere. She is on license plates, calendars, car air fresheners, jewelry, on the front of Mexican stores, T-shirts, hats, belt buckles, car window decals, you name it. Probably the most poignant reference I've ever seen to her was on the back on an oil painting depiction of a Mexican migrant crossing the border into the US; there was a prayer to her for protection. She's mentioned in songs of all genres, and if you watch the Latin Grammys, Mexican artists thank la Virgen for their success the way people here thank God. Good Mexican Catholic parents, if they are lucky enough to give birth on December 12th, name their children (boy or girl) Guadalupe.
So....to end this, I'm wishing my sister-in-law Guadalupe in Veracruz a very happy birthday (Felíz Cumpleaños). Seriously. Today is her birthday!
(some of this info I already knew, but credits to wikipedia for making up the difference!)
Quite by accident (though with God, who can really say it was an accident), I found the blog of a pair of doctors working in Uganda as missionaries with World Harvest Missions. It is absolutely riveting, and worth your time to read. After reading about HIV+ mothers, sick children, and Ebola, I realize that by comparison, I/we have it made. I've added a link so you can read it too.
On an unrelated note, Jesús is out of town doing some work for my parents, so Daniel and I are flying solo this week. Single parents and military families, I salute you!
On an unrelated note, Jesús is out of town doing some work for my parents, so Daniel and I are flying solo this week. Single parents and military families, I salute you!
Sunday, December 09, 2007
Pubs Debate in Spanish
Ok, so in English but with Spanish voice dubbing, real-time interpretation, and it was broadcast only on Univision. We watched it to see what they would have to say...and not surprising, Tom Tancredo declined the invitation to debate. We didn't really miss him, quite frankly.
Like every debate there were many direct questions asked, very few directly answered.
We were least impressed with Mitt Romney, and it had nothing to do with the fact that he's Mormon. (I know that is what throws a lot of mainstream evangelicals.) It had to do with the fact that he did not answer a single question asked of him. He used it as a platform to defend a) the fence on the border; b) the fact that he didn't dismiss the undocumented Guatemalan workers doing landscaping work at his house until recently, though they had been working there for quite some time; and c) the war in Iraq. Dude, nobody asked you about the Guatemalans!
We were most impressed with John McCain, as we (or at least I) have been for some time. He seems to be forward-thinking, reasonable, and moderate. And, he actually answers the dang questions. He realizes that people need healthcare and until healthcare is affordable, we are going to keep having the same problems over and over again with insurance. He realizes that a border fence is only part of the solution to the immigration issue. He sees that these are real human beings that are affected by this issue. He's willing to admit that Congress failed to pass realistic immigration reform this year. (what?! A member of Congress willing to admit that?!) I respect his opinion on the war even if I don't fully agree with it because he too fought in a very unpopular war and was a POW.
We liked hearing more about Mike Huckabee. He's kinda come out of nowhere and seems to have some pretty moderate views for a Southern Baptist minister! Dang, if he would support the immigration reform brought up earlier this year, he'd have my vote in a heartbeat.
Fred Thompson does seems to be an 'aw, shucks' kind of candidate, and I agree with those who say he doesn't seem like he's taking it seriously. (Possum!)
Views on Giuliani, Hunter, and Paul didn't really change much.
(P.S. Dems have already debated on Univision. We found out after the fact, hence no commentary.)
Link to the story.
Ah, and we have almost a year of this left.
Like every debate there were many direct questions asked, very few directly answered.
We were least impressed with Mitt Romney, and it had nothing to do with the fact that he's Mormon. (I know that is what throws a lot of mainstream evangelicals.) It had to do with the fact that he did not answer a single question asked of him. He used it as a platform to defend a) the fence on the border; b) the fact that he didn't dismiss the undocumented Guatemalan workers doing landscaping work at his house until recently, though they had been working there for quite some time; and c) the war in Iraq. Dude, nobody asked you about the Guatemalans!
We were most impressed with John McCain, as we (or at least I) have been for some time. He seems to be forward-thinking, reasonable, and moderate. And, he actually answers the dang questions. He realizes that people need healthcare and until healthcare is affordable, we are going to keep having the same problems over and over again with insurance. He realizes that a border fence is only part of the solution to the immigration issue. He sees that these are real human beings that are affected by this issue. He's willing to admit that Congress failed to pass realistic immigration reform this year. (what?! A member of Congress willing to admit that?!) I respect his opinion on the war even if I don't fully agree with it because he too fought in a very unpopular war and was a POW.
We liked hearing more about Mike Huckabee. He's kinda come out of nowhere and seems to have some pretty moderate views for a Southern Baptist minister! Dang, if he would support the immigration reform brought up earlier this year, he'd have my vote in a heartbeat.
Fred Thompson does seems to be an 'aw, shucks' kind of candidate, and I agree with those who say he doesn't seem like he's taking it seriously. (Possum!)
Views on Giuliani, Hunter, and Paul didn't really change much.
(P.S. Dems have already debated on Univision. We found out after the fact, hence no commentary.)
Link to the story.
Ah, and we have almost a year of this left.
Wednesday, December 05, 2007
Tuesday, December 04, 2007
Thursday, November 29, 2007
Watch what you say around Daniel
Today after he woke up from his nap, he informed me that "We ain't had nothin' but maggoty bread for three stinkin' days!"
This is from his Veggie Tales Lord of the Beans, which is of course a takeoff on a very popular trilogy movie with a similar name....
This is from his Veggie Tales Lord of the Beans, which is of course a takeoff on a very popular trilogy movie with a similar name....
Monday, November 26, 2007
GRRRRR!
Ever have those times when it seems like no matter what you do or how hard you try to do the right thing, you get a roadblock thrown up? Well, we are having such a time.
Right now, life sucks.
Right now, life sucks.
Friday, November 23, 2007
The Immigration Wilderness
I found this on the NY Times online, an editorial piece on immigration that makes SO MUCH sense.
Thoughts, opinions, whatever, always welcome.
Thoughts, opinions, whatever, always welcome.
Saturday, November 17, 2007
Inspiration from a fellow blogger
I found this story on a friend of a friend's blog...and it was so convicting, I wanted to post it here:
"The other day as I was having a quiet time, E (her oldest daughter) asked me to do something with her. Used to being interrupted, I said, "Not right now, I'm spending time with Jesus. When I'm finished talking with Jesus then we can play." Her response was, "I pray sometimes too, Mommy." I said, "Really, when do you do that?" Thinking she was talking about prayer time before bed or at the dinner table. But she answered, "Well, I just close my eyes and bow my head and pray to God alone in my room." I said, "What do you pray about?" "I just sit quiet and pray, Mommy." "I know, but what do you talk to God about when you pray?" "Nothing, Mommy, I just sit quiet and listen to God."
Sounds like I could take a lesson from a preschooler!!!!
"The other day as I was having a quiet time, E (her oldest daughter) asked me to do something with her. Used to being interrupted, I said, "Not right now, I'm spending time with Jesus. When I'm finished talking with Jesus then we can play." Her response was, "I pray sometimes too, Mommy." I said, "Really, when do you do that?" Thinking she was talking about prayer time before bed or at the dinner table. But she answered, "Well, I just close my eyes and bow my head and pray to God alone in my room." I said, "What do you pray about?" "I just sit quiet and pray, Mommy." "I know, but what do you talk to God about when you pray?" "Nothing, Mommy, I just sit quiet and listen to God."
Sounds like I could take a lesson from a preschooler!!!!
If I Can Dream
'If I Can Dream' has become one of my favorite Elvis songs; it's a far cry from 'Jailhouse Rock' or 'Polk Salad Annie', or even 'In the Ghetto'. He first sang it in his 1968 Comeback Special, in the year of the Tet offensive in Vietnam, the year of Martin and Bobby's assassinations. What strikes me is that it's been almost 40 years since it came out and the lyrics are still as powerful as they were then.
There must be lights burning brighter somewhere
Got to be birds flying higher
In a sky more blue,
If I can dream of a better land
Where all my brothers walk hand in hand
Tell me why, oh why,
Oh why can't my dream come true?
There must be peace and understanding sometime
Strong winds of promise that will blow away
All the doubt and fear.
If I can dream of a warmer sun
Where hope keeps shining on everyone
Tell me why, oh why,
Oh why won't that sun appear?
We're lost in a cloud
With too much rain,
We're trapped in a world
That's troubled with pain.
But as long as a man has the strength to dream
He can redeem his soul and fly.
Deep in my heart there's a trembling question
Still I am sure that the answer's gonna come somehow
Out there in the dark, there's a beckoning candle
And while I can think, while I can talk
While I can stand, while I can walk
While I can dream, please let my dream
Come true, right now.
There must be lights burning brighter somewhere
Got to be birds flying higher
In a sky more blue,
If I can dream of a better land
Where all my brothers walk hand in hand
Tell me why, oh why,
Oh why can't my dream come true?
There must be peace and understanding sometime
Strong winds of promise that will blow away
All the doubt and fear.
If I can dream of a warmer sun
Where hope keeps shining on everyone
Tell me why, oh why,
Oh why won't that sun appear?
We're lost in a cloud
With too much rain,
We're trapped in a world
That's troubled with pain.
But as long as a man has the strength to dream
He can redeem his soul and fly.
Deep in my heart there's a trembling question
Still I am sure that the answer's gonna come somehow
Out there in the dark, there's a beckoning candle
And while I can think, while I can talk
While I can stand, while I can walk
While I can dream, please let my dream
Come true, right now.
Thursday, November 15, 2007
Update
Still no change, although emotionally I (BethAnn) am a little better. Jesús is still pretty stressed.
Friday, November 02, 2007
Grrrrrrr!
I am seriously about at breaking point.
During our last trip to MD to visit famiy & run a few errands while there, we seriously got to thinking that it might be in the plans for us to move up there. Nothing is definite but we are certainly considering it, being that this state's politics, well, they're a little backward. And it's not going to get better before Election Day 2008.
And it is really stressful to even think about moving, along with all the other crap that's been on our plate recently. We may not have to; we really don't WANT to. But more and more, it's looking like that's what is going to happen. We are seriously praying about it and mulling over our options. We love our house, we love our neighbors; however, the only thing that's really holding me back at all is my job. The benefits, pay, coworkers, and schedule can't be beat, and I finally have some seniority.
Most of you know that when I'm stressed, I don't sleep well. So combine increased stress, a tiring trip out of town, and a big cut in sleep time, well, you get me: a pressure cooker. So I'm here, venting it in hopes of getting some of it out.
Ok, enough whining.
During our last trip to MD to visit famiy & run a few errands while there, we seriously got to thinking that it might be in the plans for us to move up there. Nothing is definite but we are certainly considering it, being that this state's politics, well, they're a little backward. And it's not going to get better before Election Day 2008.
And it is really stressful to even think about moving, along with all the other crap that's been on our plate recently. We may not have to; we really don't WANT to. But more and more, it's looking like that's what is going to happen. We are seriously praying about it and mulling over our options. We love our house, we love our neighbors; however, the only thing that's really holding me back at all is my job. The benefits, pay, coworkers, and schedule can't be beat, and I finally have some seniority.
Most of you know that when I'm stressed, I don't sleep well. So combine increased stress, a tiring trip out of town, and a big cut in sleep time, well, you get me: a pressure cooker. So I'm here, venting it in hopes of getting some of it out.
Ok, enough whining.
Thursday, October 25, 2007
Out of the Mouths....
Today we finally got some rain!!!!!
I was getting wet as we were getting Daniel into his carseat before getting into the car ourselves....Daniel looked my shirt that had some wet rain-spots on it..."Mama, you peed on yourself!"
Thursday, October 18, 2007
You Gave Me a Mountain
"Ask and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, the door will be opened."
"Come to me, all yo who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls."
I am really trying to do that. Trying really hard.
"Come to me, all yo who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls."
I am really trying to do that. Trying really hard.
Tuesday, October 16, 2007
Sunday, October 14, 2007
Conversation & more Thomas Pictures
We were sitting eating our supper tonight....Daniel had chicken fajita soup with some pickled jalapeño juice (just like Papa) mixed in. (I had spaghetti.) Anyway, it never ceases to amaze me how the child can eat spicy on a par to match anyone. I asked him, "You're a little Mexican boy, right?" Him: "No. I'm three years old."
Having fun in the bouncy thing, which later ate Daniel's socks.
Enjoying my hotdog
With Grandpa. Notice how Daniel has copied his grandfather's pose.
With Sir Topham Hatt, who 'owns' Thomas
Glad the folks from Greenpeace weren't watching....
Wednesday, October 10, 2007
Thomas, Part 2 (of many more)
Thomas up close....like seeing a celebrity, y'know?
I imagine I'd be just as absorbed if I'd gotten to see Elvis.
Papa & Percy (Percy, as you can tell was one of those inflatable deals. But we didn't care.)
The train table in the gift shop....arguably he had more fun here than anywhere else...:)
Tuesday, October 09, 2007
A Day Out With Thomas
This is going to be a massive set of posts, and I'm going to try & break them up.
As we're getting ready to go into the train station to see Thomas....he is so excited he can hardly see straight....
Had to stop & look....
Here he comes....
Enthralled with Thomas.....
As we're getting ready to go into the train station to see Thomas....he is so excited he can hardly see straight....
Had to stop & look....
Here he comes....
Enthralled with Thomas.....
Monday, October 08, 2007
Prez
Really and truly, I'd like to vote for either Elvis or Gandalf in '08. But since one is (probably) dead and the other is a fictional character, I'm out of luck.
But the more I read about Dennis Kucinich, the more I lean toward him. I don't agree with him, on everything, but on enough to at least consider him.
But the more I read about Dennis Kucinich, the more I lean toward him. I don't agree with him, on everything, but on enough to at least consider him.
Visit to Grandma & Grandpa's house
While in town to see Thomas, we took advantage of the opportunity to see Grandpa, Grandma, & Uncle John as well. They have a big yard to run in, a nice playground (Grandma runs an in-home daycare), and lots of good home-cookin'. A good time was had by all. And my dad became a fan of this, as he listened to my copy and pronounced it 'really cool.'
With Grandma's spoiled rotten (but very cute) dog Dusty.
The monstrous talking Elmo. It's grandparents' job to give send your kids home with noisy annoying toys that they (your kids) absolutely adore.....
With Grandma's spoiled rotten (but very cute) dog Dusty.
Relaxing in (of all places) the sandbox
The monstrous talking Elmo. It's grandparents' job to give send your kids home with noisy annoying toys that they (your kids) absolutely adore.....
Sunday, October 07, 2007
Movin' on up
I think we are finally ready for Big Boy Underwear.
Pictures from A Day Out with Thomas forthcoming.....
Pictures from A Day Out with Thomas forthcoming.....
Saturday, October 06, 2007
Thursday, October 04, 2007
Funny exchanges
#1)
Papa: "Let's go outside, Jesus Guevawra."
Daniel: "No, it's Jesus Guevara."
Papa: "Oh, I'm sorry. Who says 'Guevawra'"?
Daniel: "The gringos."
#2)
Jesus: "Who says 'blah, blah, blah, blah, blah....'"?
Daniel: "Mama."
Papa: "Let's go outside, Jesus Guevawra."
Daniel: "No, it's Jesus Guevara."
Papa: "Oh, I'm sorry. Who says 'Guevawra'"?
Daniel: "The gringos."
#2)
Jesus: "Who says 'blah, blah, blah, blah, blah....'"?
Daniel: "Mama."
Wednesday, October 03, 2007
Short & sweet
Go Cubbies!!!!
If you are familiar with the Cubs' history the picture will make sense! :)
Tuesday, October 02, 2007
Johnny Cash
Bought a Johnny Cash CD that had a song on it that I had never heard but REALLY liked. I have a soft spot in my heart for war vets anyway, but this is a really sad tribute.
"The Ballad of Ira Hayes"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mdBZJIuHdck
Who is Ira Hayes?
"The Ballad of Ira Hayes"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mdBZJIuHdck
Who is Ira Hayes?
Sunday, September 30, 2007
Very very very sad, heartbreaking night at work last night. I won't go into too much detail -- I don't have the emotional energy for it. But let's just say that when I see a father cry over the body of his very tiny premature dead son, well, it sends me right over the edge. And I realize that I just don't have problems that big.
Well, I'm tired and so weary, but I must go along
'Til the Lord comes and calls me away
Where the morning's so bright and the Lamb is the light
And the night is fair as the day
There will be peace in the valley for me someday
There will be peace in the valley for me,
Oh Lord I pray
There'll be no sadness, no sorrow, no trouble I'll see
There will be peace in the valley for me.
Well, I'm tired and so weary, but I must go along
'Til the Lord comes and calls me away
Where the morning's so bright and the Lamb is the light
And the night is fair as the day
There will be peace in the valley for me someday
There will be peace in the valley for me,
Oh Lord I pray
There'll be no sadness, no sorrow, no trouble I'll see
There will be peace in the valley for me.
Thursday, September 27, 2007
Daniel's bday
First, I can't believe he's going to be THREE years old!!! That is just hard to believe. Feels like he was born yesterday. He is a Thomas junkie the way I am an Elvis or LOTR junkie, so he's going to be getting this and this from us.
Along with a Thomas cake, and probably a trip to see Thomas here.
We still love God more than anything....but Thomas ranks pretty close up there.
Daniel helps me make pancakes....one of his big jobs, besides getting the butter out of the fridge is to sing to me while I mix the batter. Tonight's selection:
"Come, now is time to waaaah-sheff.
Come, now is time to give yo' haht
Come, just as you are to waaah-sheff
Come, just as you are before yooour God...."
"I tell you the truth, unless you become change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of Heaven." Matt. 18:3
Father, please forgive me for my arrogance, for thinking that I can do things my way, without your help. Please forgive me for not believing that You can move mountains. And thank you for giving me that sweet preschooler who is not afraid to sing his little lungs out in praise of You.
Along with a Thomas cake, and probably a trip to see Thomas here.
We still love God more than anything....but Thomas ranks pretty close up there.
Daniel helps me make pancakes....one of his big jobs, besides getting the butter out of the fridge is to sing to me while I mix the batter. Tonight's selection:
"Come, now is time to waaaah-sheff.
Come, now is time to give yo' haht
Come, just as you are to waaah-sheff
Come, just as you are before yooour God...."
"I tell you the truth, unless you become change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of Heaven." Matt. 18:3
Father, please forgive me for my arrogance, for thinking that I can do things my way, without your help. Please forgive me for not believing that You can move mountains. And thank you for giving me that sweet preschooler who is not afraid to sing his little lungs out in praise of You.
Thanks Covey!
Now we are going to try to post a link. So you can click here if you want to find out who my favorite singer is.
Thank you so much Covey...it works! I am going to be a hyperlinking fool from here on out...
Thank you so much Covey...it works! I am going to be a hyperlinking fool from here on out...
Blogworld help
This is going to sound like a really dumb question. But we have had a blog for over 2 years now and don't know how to post a link to something without pasting the entire link within the text. Like instead of posting www.lordoftherings.net, how do we just put click here to visit one of BethAnn's favorite sites?
Thanks in advance for any help. I don't mean to sound like a techno idiot. But maybe I am. And that's ok. Because I'm good enough, I'm smart enough, and doggone it...:)
Thanks in advance for any help. I don't mean to sound like a techno idiot. But maybe I am. And that's ok. Because I'm good enough, I'm smart enough, and doggone it...:)
Wednesday, September 26, 2007
Tuesday, September 25, 2007
Lots of news
New church: Sunday we visited a new church, an English-speaking one (we have been attending Spanish-speaking churches since we were dating). Jesus likes it because he can understand most of what is going on, which hasn't happened with other Anglo churches we have visited. I like it because the worship songs are from my youth/UNC IV years and I know most of them. I also like it because there is some racial diversity -- white and black and Hispanic. I would like to see more but the folks there are definitely color-blind and the church's focus is to make fishers of men, regardleess of race, religion, social status, color, etc. That's nice.
Dang old age! I have plantar fasciitis. Ouch. On top of that, I threw my back out again. And my gray roots are growing out. Meanwhile, my 34-yo husband has like 6 gray hairs, and looks fabulous.
I have created a monster. Last night I was diddling around on YouTube, as I wanted Jesus to see Johnny Cash sing "Walk the Line." Not Daniel. His exact words: "Not that one, Mama! Turn it off! Need to put on Elvis!"
Bedtime has turned into a bittersweet ritual. I know it is a good thing that Daniel wants to fall asleep "all by mysulf" but we miss snuggling with him. Last night we read a story -- Sleepy Jesus -- and then we prayed. I turned on his 'sticker nightlight' -- because it is a smiley face like the Wal-Mart stickers -- and turned on his 'birdies' -- a CD with rainforest sounds. A hug and a kiss, and:
"Sleep good, sweetheart."
"Jesus is in here with me and makes the stinky guys run away."
"Yes honey, there are no stinky guys in here, because Jesus is in here with you. Know who loves you?"
"Jesus."
"And Mommy, and Papa."
"And God?"
He is growing up, and he gets it.
Wednesday, September 19, 2007
Cachibombo
The above is Daniel's current favorite TV show character, whom he calls "Cachibombo" after the show's theme song. It's a shame you can't see the character's (name is Juan) whole body; that would explain the boots. But the belt and boots are non-negotiable. They have to be on Daniel's person at or before 7pm each night, which is when the show comes on Univision.
Tuesday, September 18, 2007
Lessons learned at the Mexican Consulate
...which is where we spent our morning yesterday getting hubs his passport.
1) You are on Mexican soil; you are therefore on Mexican time. Do not expect to 'get in and get out' as we Yanks are so fond of doing.
2) You are allowed to have food and drink inside the building.
3) You are also allowed to have screaming babies, and you are allowed to whip out your boob and breastfeed said babies without so much as a second glance from others. (that, IMO, is how it should be.)
4) You are allowed to hang out on the front steps of the building to allow your children to play while you are waiting the eternity for your family member to get his/her stuff done. I'm sure that must be an interesting sight to passersby. It also saved my sanity.
5) Everybody there will expect you to speak Spanish -- in America, no less!
6) Who knew that an official government building could be located in front of a Kroger and beside a Burger King? I bet said stores make a killing, too.
7) There is a lot of stupid paperwork in Mexican government, too. It is, however, far more streamlined than I thought it would be.
8) Mexicans don't have the personal space issues that we Yanks (and you Finns, Kirsi :) ) have. I got so many strange looks for saying 'excuse me' after bumping into people. Seems that nobody minds being crammed into tight spaces, getting jostled is just par for the course, and no offense is taken.
9) The staff working there was very courteous and helpful. I'm not sure what I expected, but they seemed to go out of their way to be helpful, not just to us, but to everyone.
10) We are definitely going to get dual passports for Daniel. Viva México!
1) You are on Mexican soil; you are therefore on Mexican time. Do not expect to 'get in and get out' as we Yanks are so fond of doing.
2) You are allowed to have food and drink inside the building.
3) You are also allowed to have screaming babies, and you are allowed to whip out your boob and breastfeed said babies without so much as a second glance from others. (that, IMO, is how it should be.)
4) You are allowed to hang out on the front steps of the building to allow your children to play while you are waiting the eternity for your family member to get his/her stuff done. I'm sure that must be an interesting sight to passersby. It also saved my sanity.
5) Everybody there will expect you to speak Spanish -- in America, no less!
6) Who knew that an official government building could be located in front of a Kroger and beside a Burger King? I bet said stores make a killing, too.
7) There is a lot of stupid paperwork in Mexican government, too. It is, however, far more streamlined than I thought it would be.
8) Mexicans don't have the personal space issues that we Yanks (and you Finns, Kirsi :) ) have. I got so many strange looks for saying 'excuse me' after bumping into people. Seems that nobody minds being crammed into tight spaces, getting jostled is just par for the course, and no offense is taken.
9) The staff working there was very courteous and helpful. I'm not sure what I expected, but they seemed to go out of their way to be helpful, not just to us, but to everyone.
10) We are definitely going to get dual passports for Daniel. Viva México!
Friday, September 14, 2007
Showdown at Wal-Mart
A few months ago, my brother saw a disabled man being assaulted in the parking lot of a local Mickey D's. My brother got out, pulled the assailant off his intended victim and decked him. Once the cops got there (who immediately let John go) they find this assailant has an outstanding arrest warrant for attempted murder. (Go John!) Anyway, my story is not quite as dramatic.
I am standing in the checkout line at Walmart, minding my own business. The lady in front of me is arguing about the price of her produce. Ok, fine. I'm not trying to get into it, even though her behavior was rather rude and obnoxious, especially to the cashier, who was doing her best to be nice. After several arguments over several different pieces of produce, the lady, who was already being extremely rude (my preschooler is more polite) to the cashier -- nary a 'please' nor 'thank you' proceeded from her lips, not even once -- this lady turned to me and another lady behind me and says very snottily, "Watch your produce, girls." Ok, lady. Now you done did it. I was going to stay out of it, but since you got me involved...I bit my tongue for a few seconds while thinking about whether to respond. And decided to respond. I said, "Lady, you should be grateful that you even have enough money to pay for what's in your cart." And she says, "Well, she's ringing it up XYZ and it's really ABC per pound." I said, "It's 60 cents' difference. Get over it."
She finally asked to speak to the manager, while Jesus and I were ringing up our stuff (which, btw, was rung up correctly). I went on about my business and was venting to Jesus on the way out. We're loading our stuff into our trunk, and Guess Who comes stomping over to where we are and says to me, "I want to know just who you think you are to say something like that to me." I said, "You have more money than most people in the rest of the world and there is no need to be rude to anyone the way you were rude to that cashier."
"Oh, and do you know that for a fact? My husband and I live on a very fixed income."
"Well, if you have a house, and you have a car that you can get in and drive to Wal-mart, you have more than most of the rest of the world. And there was no need to say what you said to me in the checkout line."
"I thought I was doing you a favor."
"You were snide and you did not need to be."
[stomps off mumbling under breath]
Maybe I could have been a little nicer to this lady, but I was so furious by the way she was treating the cashier that it was hard to keep an even tone of voice. Maybe I should've just said "You can complain, but there's no need to involve me, and there's no need to be rude." Or maybe, "I hope you don't go to church, because you're giving the rest of us a bad name." (probably not that one.) But I couldn't just stand by while she treated this poor woman like dirt. Or maybe she thought I was being disrespectful to my elders. Oh well. Maybe, living inside me, there's an Erin Brockovich, and I have to let her show every once in a while.
I am standing in the checkout line at Walmart, minding my own business. The lady in front of me is arguing about the price of her produce. Ok, fine. I'm not trying to get into it, even though her behavior was rather rude and obnoxious, especially to the cashier, who was doing her best to be nice. After several arguments over several different pieces of produce, the lady, who was already being extremely rude (my preschooler is more polite) to the cashier -- nary a 'please' nor 'thank you' proceeded from her lips, not even once -- this lady turned to me and another lady behind me and says very snottily, "Watch your produce, girls." Ok, lady. Now you done did it. I was going to stay out of it, but since you got me involved...I bit my tongue for a few seconds while thinking about whether to respond. And decided to respond. I said, "Lady, you should be grateful that you even have enough money to pay for what's in your cart." And she says, "Well, she's ringing it up XYZ and it's really ABC per pound." I said, "It's 60 cents' difference. Get over it."
She finally asked to speak to the manager, while Jesus and I were ringing up our stuff (which, btw, was rung up correctly). I went on about my business and was venting to Jesus on the way out. We're loading our stuff into our trunk, and Guess Who comes stomping over to where we are and says to me, "I want to know just who you think you are to say something like that to me." I said, "You have more money than most people in the rest of the world and there is no need to be rude to anyone the way you were rude to that cashier."
"Oh, and do you know that for a fact? My husband and I live on a very fixed income."
"Well, if you have a house, and you have a car that you can get in and drive to Wal-mart, you have more than most of the rest of the world. And there was no need to say what you said to me in the checkout line."
"I thought I was doing you a favor."
"You were snide and you did not need to be."
[stomps off mumbling under breath]
Maybe I could have been a little nicer to this lady, but I was so furious by the way she was treating the cashier that it was hard to keep an even tone of voice. Maybe I should've just said "You can complain, but there's no need to involve me, and there's no need to be rude." Or maybe, "I hope you don't go to church, because you're giving the rest of us a bad name." (probably not that one.) But I couldn't just stand by while she treated this poor woman like dirt. Or maybe she thought I was being disrespectful to my elders. Oh well. Maybe, living inside me, there's an Erin Brockovich, and I have to let her show every once in a while.
Thursday, September 13, 2007
Sick
As expected, Daniel has come down with some virus or something since starting back to school. Kids can't share toys, but they can for sure share germs...anyway, this is what I found when I went to check on Daniel & Jesus (who is his preferred buddy) about an hour ago:
Jesus has since laid Daniel down in his bed. He is such a great daddy.
Jesus has since laid Daniel down in his bed. He is such a great daddy.
Awesome, awesome song
I found this on YouTube (my new hobby) when I did a search for Elvis & gospel. He does not actually sing, but it's worth it to just watch & listen. It is a beautiful song anyway, the quartet harmony is amazing, and it is a moving moment for Elvis, obviously. I watched it twice with tears in my eyes both times.
Wednesday, September 05, 2007
Intact
Warning: this post may be a little inflammatory. I have thought long and hard about posting this and have come to the conclusion that because it's part of who I am (and this is my blog, and the 1st amendment and all that), then yes, I am going to post about it. If you have strong feelings about circumcision, or don't want to listen to a rant involving um, boy parts, you might want to skip over it.
Why the title? Because, ladies and gentlemen, I have become an 'intactivist' in my old age and wisdom (ok, the wisdom part is debatable). What is an intactivist? Thanks for asking. An intactivist is someone who does not believe in circumcising baby boys. There are more of us out there than I thought, but I truly wish the numbers were higher.
What do I have against circumcision?
1) It's not mandated by God for Christians. For Israel, yes. In the OT. Paul writes that what counts is a new creation. Circumcision is not necessary for salvation. And even among Jews today there is a small but significant movement away from circumcision. The ceremony is still held as a way to welcome baby into the community, but without the trauma.
2) It really doesn't serve a purpose. Yes, I have heard the studies about it preventing HIV transmission. Those studies were done on adult men. If adult men want to line up to have their weenies whacked, fine. (I didn't think so!) But to put a baby boy through something like that, well, I can't see what the logic is. If it gives us pause to imagine a grown man going through something like that, why shouldn't it bother us to think about babies? Also, while we're on the HIV topic....are you telling me we should be preaching circumcision instead of abstinence and monogamy? I hope not (I realize most people reading this blog wouldn't be. I'm just making a point). I still believe that circumcising baby boys is not necessary if you want to prevent HIV transmission.
3) Over and over I have seen it in my work as a mother-baby nurse: people who would not think of having their little girls cut in ANY fashion (not even under local anesthesia and in a sterile room), the same folks will send their little boys off without a second thought to have essentially the same thing done. If one is child abuse, why is the other okay?
4) Again, over and over I have seen this: Babies who are nursing like the little champs they are do great til they get circumcised. Then it all falls to pieces. Numerous studies have suggested that babies' pain response often resembles going to sleep. In actuality, they are shutting down because they cannot tolerate the pain. I have had so many moms get frustrated with nursing after their babies are circed because they will not wake up to eat.
5) The hygiene argument is a really non-applicable one, especially in the era of soap and water. Either way you have to wash down there, right? It is not that difficult to retract a foreskin, wash & rinse under it, and put it back. If it is, maybe you ought to invest in a protein shake or something. And you really don't even have to do that til the darn thing goes back on its own, which may not be for several years. Believe me, a 2 year-old can do it. My 2-year-old does.
6) I really wish people would not use the "we wanted him to look like Daddy" argument. Number one, he's not going to look like Daddy for a very long time anyway, and by the time he does, he and Daddy are probably not going to be comparing. Second, how many adult men (don't raise your hands) know/care whether or not your dad was circumcised? Third, he may notice that he and Daddy look different but that doesn't mean it will bother him. Whose hang-up is it, really? Is it the boy that will feel funny not looking like his dad, or is it the other way around? With friends that I know whose husbands are circed but their boys aren't, a simple "Daddy had a surgery you didn't need" does the trick if they ask. Also worth asking: what if Daddy has had a leg or arm amputated? Are you going to chop off your son's limb so he'll look like Daddy? Why not? (Ok, that was rhetorical. I'm NOT advocating the aforementioned idea.)
7) The locker room argument. You don't want your son to be made fun of for being 'different.' 1) With the current circ rate running at about 60% in the USA, that leaves 40% uncirced. He'll probably have some company. 2) What are they doing looking, anyway? 3) What message am I sending my son having his body unnecessarily, irreversibly altered as a baby so he'll fit in?
8) I have heard people say that men who aren't circumcised don't look 'normal.' Um....ok. 75% of the world doesn't circumcise. Most Latin Americans don't. Most Asians, Europeans, and Aussies don't. Canada's universal health care doesn't cover it anymore, as far as I know. Many places in Africa don't. That leaves....hmmm....the USA. I had a nurse colleague tell me once, "It's all what you're used to." It's all about what I'm used to? I'm going to put my son through something unnecessary so he can look some way that I'm 'used to'?!
This post is not intended to offend anyone who has had their sons circumcised, nor outrage anyone reading this who has been circumcised (no need to raise hands), nor imply that people who have had their boys circed should be arrested on the spot and jailed. And I realize that a generation or two back, it was something that you just did. You didn't ask questions. I know that. I just want people to think about it.
I didn't realize that I had such strong feelings about this until I started working as a mother-baby nurse. Fortunately, we had not had Daniel circumcised as a baby because we did research & found that the AAP no longer endorses it. But having seen over and over what it does to the babies, and having seen a few botched/bleeding circs, I just can't see having it done to any baby, period. It's essentially cosmetic surgery, and no thank you. Not for my boys until they are consenting adults & can decide for themselves that it's something they want (I'll think they're crazy, but I'll make the appts if they want them).
Some websites with additional information, should you want it:
http://www.circumcisioninfo.com/
http://www.cirp.org/
http://www.nocirc.org/
www.jewishcircumcision.org
Some of the information is a little extreme but most of it is informative, even for those of us in the field already.
I welcome debate and/or questions. But please keep comments polite, and only comment if you can deal with others disagreeing with you on either side. Thanks.
Now that my rant is done, I hope I still have friends!
Why the title? Because, ladies and gentlemen, I have become an 'intactivist' in my old age and wisdom (ok, the wisdom part is debatable). What is an intactivist? Thanks for asking. An intactivist is someone who does not believe in circumcising baby boys. There are more of us out there than I thought, but I truly wish the numbers were higher.
What do I have against circumcision?
1) It's not mandated by God for Christians. For Israel, yes. In the OT. Paul writes that what counts is a new creation. Circumcision is not necessary for salvation. And even among Jews today there is a small but significant movement away from circumcision. The ceremony is still held as a way to welcome baby into the community, but without the trauma.
2) It really doesn't serve a purpose. Yes, I have heard the studies about it preventing HIV transmission. Those studies were done on adult men. If adult men want to line up to have their weenies whacked, fine. (I didn't think so!) But to put a baby boy through something like that, well, I can't see what the logic is. If it gives us pause to imagine a grown man going through something like that, why shouldn't it bother us to think about babies? Also, while we're on the HIV topic....are you telling me we should be preaching circumcision instead of abstinence and monogamy? I hope not (I realize most people reading this blog wouldn't be. I'm just making a point). I still believe that circumcising baby boys is not necessary if you want to prevent HIV transmission.
3) Over and over I have seen it in my work as a mother-baby nurse: people who would not think of having their little girls cut in ANY fashion (not even under local anesthesia and in a sterile room), the same folks will send their little boys off without a second thought to have essentially the same thing done. If one is child abuse, why is the other okay?
4) Again, over and over I have seen this: Babies who are nursing like the little champs they are do great til they get circumcised. Then it all falls to pieces. Numerous studies have suggested that babies' pain response often resembles going to sleep. In actuality, they are shutting down because they cannot tolerate the pain. I have had so many moms get frustrated with nursing after their babies are circed because they will not wake up to eat.
5) The hygiene argument is a really non-applicable one, especially in the era of soap and water. Either way you have to wash down there, right? It is not that difficult to retract a foreskin, wash & rinse under it, and put it back. If it is, maybe you ought to invest in a protein shake or something. And you really don't even have to do that til the darn thing goes back on its own, which may not be for several years. Believe me, a 2 year-old can do it. My 2-year-old does.
6) I really wish people would not use the "we wanted him to look like Daddy" argument. Number one, he's not going to look like Daddy for a very long time anyway, and by the time he does, he and Daddy are probably not going to be comparing. Second, how many adult men (don't raise your hands) know/care whether or not your dad was circumcised? Third, he may notice that he and Daddy look different but that doesn't mean it will bother him. Whose hang-up is it, really? Is it the boy that will feel funny not looking like his dad, or is it the other way around? With friends that I know whose husbands are circed but their boys aren't, a simple "Daddy had a surgery you didn't need" does the trick if they ask. Also worth asking: what if Daddy has had a leg or arm amputated? Are you going to chop off your son's limb so he'll look like Daddy? Why not? (Ok, that was rhetorical. I'm NOT advocating the aforementioned idea.)
7) The locker room argument. You don't want your son to be made fun of for being 'different.' 1) With the current circ rate running at about 60% in the USA, that leaves 40% uncirced. He'll probably have some company. 2) What are they doing looking, anyway? 3) What message am I sending my son having his body unnecessarily, irreversibly altered as a baby so he'll fit in?
8) I have heard people say that men who aren't circumcised don't look 'normal.' Um....ok. 75% of the world doesn't circumcise. Most Latin Americans don't. Most Asians, Europeans, and Aussies don't. Canada's universal health care doesn't cover it anymore, as far as I know. Many places in Africa don't. That leaves....hmmm....the USA. I had a nurse colleague tell me once, "It's all what you're used to." It's all about what I'm used to? I'm going to put my son through something unnecessary so he can look some way that I'm 'used to'?!
This post is not intended to offend anyone who has had their sons circumcised, nor outrage anyone reading this who has been circumcised (no need to raise hands), nor imply that people who have had their boys circed should be arrested on the spot and jailed. And I realize that a generation or two back, it was something that you just did. You didn't ask questions. I know that. I just want people to think about it.
I didn't realize that I had such strong feelings about this until I started working as a mother-baby nurse. Fortunately, we had not had Daniel circumcised as a baby because we did research & found that the AAP no longer endorses it. But having seen over and over what it does to the babies, and having seen a few botched/bleeding circs, I just can't see having it done to any baby, period. It's essentially cosmetic surgery, and no thank you. Not for my boys until they are consenting adults & can decide for themselves that it's something they want (I'll think they're crazy, but I'll make the appts if they want them).
Some websites with additional information, should you want it:
http://www.circumcisioninfo.com/
http://www.cirp.org/
http://www.nocirc.org/
www.jewishcircumcision.org
Some of the information is a little extreme but most of it is informative, even for those of us in the field already.
I welcome debate and/or questions. But please keep comments polite, and only comment if you can deal with others disagreeing with you on either side. Thanks.
Now that my rant is done, I hope I still have friends!
School's in!
Today was Daniel's first day of preschool for the year...he is in the 3-year-old class this year and he did quite well on his first day. First thing he said to me today when he woke up: "I go to school today!" So off we went...snack, backpack, and donated school supplies. He is growing up.
Conversation from last night:
Me: "Daniel, be careful. You're going to get dizzy & fall."
Daniel: "No Mama, I'm turning around in CIRCLES!"
Me: "Ok, be careful."
Daniel: "Thank you."
After two more minutes of spinning around:
Daniel: "Mama, the floor is rolling!"
A requisite picture, captioned with Daniel's quote:
"It's in my Pocket."
Conversation from last night:
Me: "Daniel, be careful. You're going to get dizzy & fall."
Daniel: "No Mama, I'm turning around in CIRCLES!"
Me: "Ok, be careful."
Daniel: "Thank you."
After two more minutes of spinning around:
Daniel: "Mama, the floor is rolling!"
A requisite picture, captioned with Daniel's quote:
"It's in my Pocket."
Wednesday, August 29, 2007
From a visit to Chapel Hill a couple weekends ago
....while I was at working/sleeping, Daniel & Jesus went to see Jesus' niece and her kids in Chapel Hill. The big one we call Junior, the little one is Angel. They are both precious! And Daniel enjoyed showing them the ropes on how to be a Big Boy.
Random tidbits
I bought some fun bumper stickers from cafepress.com and plan on putting one of the two on my car.
1) Baggins/Gamgee '08
or
2) Gandalf/Aragorn '08
I tried to post pictures of them but couldn't upload them. Anyway, who would get your vote? I have my leanings but am interested in seeing who YOU think would make a better prez/VP.
Other than that, there is not much different here. I will post some pics of our friend (my old friend, Jesus & Daniel's new friend) Ute's visit as soon as I get them uploaded to the 'puter. Tomorrow Kristy and Brooklynne are coming, and they are bringing Halleigh Jane!
1) Baggins/Gamgee '08
or
2) Gandalf/Aragorn '08
I tried to post pictures of them but couldn't upload them. Anyway, who would get your vote? I have my leanings but am interested in seeing who YOU think would make a better prez/VP.
Other than that, there is not much different here. I will post some pics of our friend (my old friend, Jesus & Daniel's new friend) Ute's visit as soon as I get them uploaded to the 'puter. Tomorrow Kristy and Brooklynne are coming, and they are bringing Halleigh Jane!
Thursday, August 23, 2007
Family Update
We are very happy to report that Hurricane Dean was greatly weakened from the monster that passed over Yucatán, to a category 1 storm that made landfall in Veracruz (which is where we have relatives). Dean's path took it right over the cities of Veracruz, Tuxpan, and Isla; we have family in 2 of the 3 cities. We have not yet been able to make contact with any of them yet, but the Veracruz state government is reporting that there were no injuries nor deaths related to Dean. This makes us very happy!
I was listening to the radio a couple days ago & the newscaster mentioned that this area needs something like 15 inches of rain to be out of the drought that we are in. 15 inches! I don't see that happening any time soon. And we are not the hardest-hit part of the state.
And, as always, the requisite picture:
Daniel calls this picture "Dos Igualitos" (two guys that are alike).
I was listening to the radio a couple days ago & the newscaster mentioned that this area needs something like 15 inches of rain to be out of the drought that we are in. 15 inches! I don't see that happening any time soon. And we are not the hardest-hit part of the state.
And, as always, the requisite picture:
Daniel calls this picture "Dos Igualitos" (two guys that are alike).
Wednesday, August 22, 2007
Cute Pic of Somebody Else's Child
I found this on neonatology.com. It's titled "The Laughing Premie." Sorry the quality isn't better but it's still worth looking at, IMHO. :)
Tuesday, August 21, 2007
Monday, August 20, 2007
A Visit with Aunt Kirsi
At breakfast with Aunt Kirsi
Jesus with his new friend.
Picking up leaves at the park
New best friends
"Crazy? I don't think so!"
This is Daniel's new favorite saying. We do not know where it came from but we think it is funny. Also among our favorites:
"There are stinky guys in my room!"
"I need some of that pink stuff." (his kiddie mouthwash)
"Where are my little boys?" (his Lego figurines, that, thank God, were not made in China! We have to take the 'little boys' with us everywhere we go, almost.)
Other random thoughts:
1) I'm trying to give up Mt. Dew since it's nothing but chemicals and crap. I'm trying to caffeinate via green tea but so far it's not going well.
2) We need rain!!!
3) Please pray for the folks of Mexico who are bracing for Hurricane Dean. One of the projected paths takes him right over Veracruz, which is where we have family.
4) I will post pictures soon. Promise.
"There are stinky guys in my room!"
"I need some of that pink stuff." (his kiddie mouthwash)
"Where are my little boys?" (his Lego figurines, that, thank God, were not made in China! We have to take the 'little boys' with us everywhere we go, almost.)
Other random thoughts:
1) I'm trying to give up Mt. Dew since it's nothing but chemicals and crap. I'm trying to caffeinate via green tea but so far it's not going well.
2) We need rain!!!
3) Please pray for the folks of Mexico who are bracing for Hurricane Dean. One of the projected paths takes him right over Veracruz, which is where we have family.
4) I will post pictures soon. Promise.
Wednesday, August 15, 2007
30 years ago
....30 years ago tomorrow Elvis died. I will admit to being a fan, and according to an AOL poll, 45% of my fellow Americans do too.
When I was younger I thought he was cute -- never mind the fact that he'd been dead 10 or more years by then. Now in my old age (or at least gray hairs), I realize it's not just that. There has been no voice like his before nor since. There is no one who has before nor since blended so many musical styles so seamlessly -- country, rock, blues, gospel, r&b, bluegrass, and classical. No one who has had the effect on music, society, and culture. His rendition of "Amazing Grace" can lift my spirit for hours.
Just for fun:
http://www.spinner.com/2007/08/10/elvis-presley-fact-or-fiction/
And here are quotes from other famous artists:
"Elvis is like the Big Bang of rock 'n' roll. It all came from there." -Bono
"Elvis is my religion. But for him, I'd be selling encyclopedias." - Bruce Springsteen
"I'm just a singer. Elvis was the embodiment of the whole American culture." -Frank Sinatra
"When I first heard Elvis'voice I just knew that Iwasn't going to work for anybody; and nobody was going to be my boss ... Hearing him was like busting out of jail." - Bob Dylan
"Nothing really affected me until I heard Elvis. If there hadn't been an Elvis, there wouldn't have been a Beatles." - John Lennon
"Before Elvis, everything was in black and white. Then came Elvis. Zoom, glorious Technicolor."
- Keith Richards
"Last time I saw him, we sang 'Old Blind Barnabas' together, a gospel song. I love him and hope to see him in heaven. There'll never be another like that soul brother." -James Brown
Ladies and gentlemen, Elvis has left the building. Thank you and good night.
When I was younger I thought he was cute -- never mind the fact that he'd been dead 10 or more years by then. Now in my old age (or at least gray hairs), I realize it's not just that. There has been no voice like his before nor since. There is no one who has before nor since blended so many musical styles so seamlessly -- country, rock, blues, gospel, r&b, bluegrass, and classical. No one who has had the effect on music, society, and culture. His rendition of "Amazing Grace" can lift my spirit for hours.
Just for fun:
http://www.spinner.com/2007/08/10/elvis-presley-fact-or-fiction/
And here are quotes from other famous artists:
"Elvis is like the Big Bang of rock 'n' roll. It all came from there." -Bono
"Elvis is my religion. But for him, I'd be selling encyclopedias." - Bruce Springsteen
"I'm just a singer. Elvis was the embodiment of the whole American culture." -Frank Sinatra
"When I first heard Elvis'voice I just knew that Iwasn't going to work for anybody; and nobody was going to be my boss ... Hearing him was like busting out of jail." - Bob Dylan
"Nothing really affected me until I heard Elvis. If there hadn't been an Elvis, there wouldn't have been a Beatles." - John Lennon
"Before Elvis, everything was in black and white. Then came Elvis. Zoom, glorious Technicolor."
- Keith Richards
"Last time I saw him, we sang 'Old Blind Barnabas' together, a gospel song. I love him and hope to see him in heaven. There'll never be another like that soul brother." -James Brown
Ladies and gentlemen, Elvis has left the building. Thank you and good night.
Wednesday, August 08, 2007
Boys will be boys....
...as evidenced by the fact that my wonderful husband has introduced our son to the world of Armpit Farting.
My life will never be the same.
My life will never be the same.
Monday, July 30, 2007
My family
Just wanted to take a moment to blog about the greatest blessings ever: my husband and my son. They are without a doubt the highlight of my life and the two faces I want to see most when I wake up. And very fortunately, they live with me!! I love them so much, and would shrivel (ooh, like that word) to a dry nothing without them.
Whether it's Jesus bringing me a rose from our rosebush 'just because' or Daniel on my way to work, "Need another hug-n-kiss, Mommy" or anything in between they just my favorite people on the planet. I have never seen a father be so involved with his child as Jesus is with Daniel....he hugs, kisses, plays, changes diapers, cleans a stinky bottom, fixes meals (GOOD ones), and so much more for our son. I am grateful a million times over for Jesus. And Daniel....gosh, what can I say? He is sweet, funny, well-behaved (most of the time), intelligent, adorable...all I could ever ask for in a child, and more. I love them both so much. They are my joy.
Whether it's Jesus bringing me a rose from our rosebush 'just because' or Daniel on my way to work, "Need another hug-n-kiss, Mommy" or anything in between they just my favorite people on the planet. I have never seen a father be so involved with his child as Jesus is with Daniel....he hugs, kisses, plays, changes diapers, cleans a stinky bottom, fixes meals (GOOD ones), and so much more for our son. I am grateful a million times over for Jesus. And Daniel....gosh, what can I say? He is sweet, funny, well-behaved (most of the time), intelligent, adorable...all I could ever ask for in a child, and more. I love them both so much. They are my joy.
Tuesday, July 24, 2007
Random bits of our lives
Three cheers for my hubby: The alternator in his truck went out Friday. In retrospect, we should have seen it coming, as we've gone through several batteries since we bought the truck in 2001. But we didn't. Long story short, he called up one of his buddies who works at a repair shop, they went to AutoZone for the part, they replaced it and the truck runs a million times better than before. All for a whopping $106. The man is a genius, and I am in awe of him!! Hubs, that is.
What I don't like: This has to do with work. So if you don't like the words placenta, uterus, cervix, or any talk of bleeding, skip this paragraph. :) And it has nothing to do with doctors, or even difficult patients, just their conditions. I work with a lot of high-risk antepartums (pregnant women) and have enjoyed learning how to take care of them. I enjoy reading the fetal monitor strips and enjoy just getting to know the ladies. We have many who stay with us for weeks and months until they deliver. My two least favorite high-risk conditions are placenta previa and placental abruptions. Previa is a condition in which the placenta completely covers the opening of the cervix. What makes that bad is that the placenta has a LOT of blood flowing through it at any given moment, and when that cervix starts to dilate (even just a tiny bit), the placenta starts to separate from the wall of the uterus. Which means that you could bleed to death in a matter of minutes. Boy howdy, when you get someone with a previa, you better be Johnny-on-the-spot cause when they break, it can be bad. You run, you don't walk, with them over to the OR. I also don't like abruptions. That's when the placenta (implanted anywhere in the uterus, usually in the upper portion) separates from the uterine wall. Less placental attachment=less nutrients to the baby, for starters. The other bit is that with as many blood vessels as are there, that can also kill you. What's even worse is that sometimes you have a hidden abruption, where the ends of the placenta are attached to the uterus, but the placenta starts to separate in the middle. So there's no actual bleeding that you can see, but it can still kill mom and/or baby. Those things will keep you on your toes, to be sure. (Note: the whopping majority of the women with these things have been wonderful to meet & know. I love them, I just don't like the conditions. Big difference, just clarifying.) Just in case you wonder what I do for a living....
Conversations with our two year old: we are down at the drainage pond at the end of our subdivision, which on this particular day, has a distinct rotting vegetation smell. Normally it's not so bad, and we like to go down there to skip rocks & watch the turtles.
Me: Ew, this water is stinky.
Daniel: We need to clean it off.
Me: We need to clean it off?
Daniel: Mmm-Hmm.
Me: What should we use to clean it off?
Daniel: Toilet paper.
And, the requisite photograph:
What I don't like: This has to do with work. So if you don't like the words placenta, uterus, cervix, or any talk of bleeding, skip this paragraph. :) And it has nothing to do with doctors, or even difficult patients, just their conditions. I work with a lot of high-risk antepartums (pregnant women) and have enjoyed learning how to take care of them. I enjoy reading the fetal monitor strips and enjoy just getting to know the ladies. We have many who stay with us for weeks and months until they deliver. My two least favorite high-risk conditions are placenta previa and placental abruptions. Previa is a condition in which the placenta completely covers the opening of the cervix. What makes that bad is that the placenta has a LOT of blood flowing through it at any given moment, and when that cervix starts to dilate (even just a tiny bit), the placenta starts to separate from the wall of the uterus. Which means that you could bleed to death in a matter of minutes. Boy howdy, when you get someone with a previa, you better be Johnny-on-the-spot cause when they break, it can be bad. You run, you don't walk, with them over to the OR. I also don't like abruptions. That's when the placenta (implanted anywhere in the uterus, usually in the upper portion) separates from the uterine wall. Less placental attachment=less nutrients to the baby, for starters. The other bit is that with as many blood vessels as are there, that can also kill you. What's even worse is that sometimes you have a hidden abruption, where the ends of the placenta are attached to the uterus, but the placenta starts to separate in the middle. So there's no actual bleeding that you can see, but it can still kill mom and/or baby. Those things will keep you on your toes, to be sure. (Note: the whopping majority of the women with these things have been wonderful to meet & know. I love them, I just don't like the conditions. Big difference, just clarifying.) Just in case you wonder what I do for a living....
Conversations with our two year old: we are down at the drainage pond at the end of our subdivision, which on this particular day, has a distinct rotting vegetation smell. Normally it's not so bad, and we like to go down there to skip rocks & watch the turtles.
Me: Ew, this water is stinky.
Daniel: We need to clean it off.
Me: We need to clean it off?
Daniel: Mmm-Hmm.
Me: What should we use to clean it off?
Daniel: Toilet paper.
And, the requisite photograph:
Tuesday, July 17, 2007
Another sound bite, and a picture
I was reading to Daniel the other night from one of his many Thomas books..."...and Percy was waiting for Toby at the bottom." Daniel: "When I make a stinky, I have to clean my bottom off."
At the library, with Rocky the Reading Rabbit. Or as Daniel calls him "Conejín" (Spanish for 'bunny).
At the library, with Rocky the Reading Rabbit. Or as Daniel calls him "Conejín" (Spanish for 'bunny).
Wednesday, July 11, 2007
Sound bites
Preface: James is an engine character from Thomas the Tank Engine. Daniel recently received a James engine from his grandmother Yaya, and of course it was a huge hit.
Daniel: James ready for going!!
Me: Where is he going?
Daniel: To the Wal-mart.
Me: He's going to Wal-mart?
Daniel: Mmm-hmm. And to the Lowe's.
"When you're nekkid [naked], peepee & stinky goes in the potty." (can you tell he's heard that a few times??)
"Está cayendo agua in the grass." Said just like that. In Spanglish. (BTW, the Spanish phrase means "it's raining.") Since we haven't had rain in WEEKS, I guess he figures it's worth commenting about.
Daniel: James ready for going!!
Me: Where is he going?
Daniel: To the Wal-mart.
Me: He's going to Wal-mart?
Daniel: Mmm-hmm. And to the Lowe's.
"When you're nekkid [naked], peepee & stinky goes in the potty." (can you tell he's heard that a few times??)
"Está cayendo agua in the grass." Said just like that. In Spanglish. (BTW, the Spanish phrase means "it's raining.") Since we haven't had rain in WEEKS, I guess he figures it's worth commenting about.
Tuesday, July 10, 2007
To Make You Think
I found this quote by Gandhi & it may hurt, but it is often the truth:
"I like your Christ. I do not like your Christians. They are so unlike your Christ."
"I like your Christ. I do not like your Christians. They are so unlike your Christ."
Wednesday, July 04, 2007
Touché
Ok, this cartoon is from an admittedly liberal website. But you can't tell me it's not right on the mark!!
Happy July 4th!
Yesterday, with the holiday approaching, I got to thinking about some things (rare occurrence, I know...) & wrote them in my journal. Here is an excerpt:
"I want to show You (referring to God here) I love you by obeying your commands. This political climate, this whole thing, I'm not sure of. Do I have to be a Republican to call myself a Christian? Could I be a Democrat? Do I have to be a member of the 'Moral Majority', the 'IVoteValues.org' people, to have the right view on things? Of course, some things are clear -- murder is wrong, lying and stealing are wrong, but what about things the Bible stays silent about? Illegal immigration, a prime example. Or even something not quite so controversial, like the environment. Am I going to be labeled a tree-hugging liberal because I think we as Christians should care about the Earth God created for us? Do conservative right-wingers have it all figured out, and I don't? Or can I be a little more moderate? Does it really matter, as long as I believe that Jesus is the Christ, the Son of God? I'm just kind of trying to figure some of these things out. Because I hear some things on Christian radio stations that I'm not sure I agree with. Of course, I believe that abortion is wrong, that homosexuality is wrong, adultery, etc. But they are not more wrong than lust, greed pride, envy, and gossip, are they? I want to lead a life that pleases You. I want to be like You, Lord. I'm just trying to figure out how to do that."
Many hotdogs, fireworks, cookouts, and blessings for all!
"I want to show You (referring to God here) I love you by obeying your commands. This political climate, this whole thing, I'm not sure of. Do I have to be a Republican to call myself a Christian? Could I be a Democrat? Do I have to be a member of the 'Moral Majority', the 'IVoteValues.org' people, to have the right view on things? Of course, some things are clear -- murder is wrong, lying and stealing are wrong, but what about things the Bible stays silent about? Illegal immigration, a prime example. Or even something not quite so controversial, like the environment. Am I going to be labeled a tree-hugging liberal because I think we as Christians should care about the Earth God created for us? Do conservative right-wingers have it all figured out, and I don't? Or can I be a little more moderate? Does it really matter, as long as I believe that Jesus is the Christ, the Son of God? I'm just kind of trying to figure some of these things out. Because I hear some things on Christian radio stations that I'm not sure I agree with. Of course, I believe that abortion is wrong, that homosexuality is wrong, adultery, etc. But they are not more wrong than lust, greed pride, envy, and gossip, are they? I want to lead a life that pleases You. I want to be like You, Lord. I'm just trying to figure out how to do that."
Many hotdogs, fireworks, cookouts, and blessings for all!
Friday, June 29, 2007
A Little Upset Today
Click on the title to find out why.
But, as one of Daniel's favorite songs goes, "He's got the whole world in His hands."
But, as one of Daniel's favorite songs goes, "He's got the whole world in His hands."
Thursday, June 28, 2007
Mexicans take their futbol seriously...
....we knew this already. But it was really driven home when we saw on the Spanish news channel a shrine replete with flowers and candles and food....and the saint (we don't know which one) dressed in a Mexican soccer jersey.
Mexico played Brazil last night in the Americas Cup and won 2-0. Next game is 7/1. Fortunately, that one will be at a time that I can be awake to watch. :)
Mexico played Brazil last night in the Americas Cup and won 2-0. Next game is 7/1. Fortunately, that one will be at a time that I can be awake to watch. :)
Wednesday, June 27, 2007
Anything you can do....
.....Daniel's usual commentary on something that both he and Papa are doing is: "Dos!"
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