Sunday, April 30, 2006

"Finished"


I am really getting to like this list thing. So much easier than having to segue into another topic.

1. While I worked this weekend Hubs took Wee One to Chapel Hill to see his (Hubs') nieces and nephew (all in their 20s) living there. He came back spoiled rotten. But I am glad they went because my boy's Mexican roots are just as much a part of him as the Anglo part. They went to see a soccer game which he thoroughly enjoyed. Except that someone needs to explain the rules to him. Hubs said that while the ball was in play and they were kicking it around the field, he was screaming "Goooooool!" (Mexican style) and clapping like a lunatic. When someone actually scored a goal, he got quiet and looked around at the crowd cheering like they were idiots.

2. It was really hard to sleep in our house yesterday, it was so quiet. Guess I'm more used to toddler-and-his-father noise than I thought.

3. I got to be in the nursery Friday night! Hooray! I love it in there. It may sound nuts, but I love feeding and holding and changing diapers. Even the screaming irritable drug babies.

4. I was reading the news online and found something I thought was interesting. As you know by now tomorrow is the planned boycott of immigrants. Some of the same people who have been vociferous critics of immigration are now scrambling trying to figure out what to do if their folks don't show up for work tomorrow. You have your right to your opinion, but don't be a hypocrite about it, please.

5. Incidentally, there could be no worse time than now to come out with the Star-Spangled Banner in Spanish. Hey folks, let's add fuel to the fire! (The national anthem of any country ought to be sung in its original language, whatever that may be, IMHO.)

6. Dad's knee surgery went pretty well. He was dumbfounded by the fact that the nurse who took the best care of him was a man.

7. BTW, in the picture above, Daniel is signing "finished" to let us know he's done eating the spaghetti. :)

Friday, April 28, 2006

Butt Update

For all who are dying to know how my boy's hiney is today, drum roll please....

...it's better. Not as red but not quite how we'd all like it to be. Keepin' on with the Lotrimin and the Balmex.

Now all Daniel would have to do is find a couple friends, slap on some ZZ Top beards and he could be in a band...the Sore Bottom Boys. Maybe they could make a movie out of it...ok, ok, I'll stop. :)

Career changes for Kristy

99999This post is specifically by request by my friend Kristy Kent. She is looking to ch9a999n999ge jobs and would like to hav999999999999999999999999999999999999999e some new career ideas. So 9I'm trying to help her out here, and by the looks of this post, so is my 18-month-old son. ++++++++++++++++++++++++

-I -vote for (of course) nursing, but that would require going back to school (a surmountable obstacle) and it's not for everyone. Kristy's mother is a nurse so she will probably talk her out of becoming one.

My next vote would be stand-up comedy because I think Kristy is very funny and can use her talent to make money.

Does anyone else have any suggestions to help my friend Kristy? I want her to be happy and in a job she enjoys. Thanks.

Thursday, April 27, 2006

Chronicles of the Sore Hiney

And other things.

1) As you may have presumed, we are struggling with a sore hiney around here (Wee One's, in case there was any question). Since he has not had diaper rash in over a year, I'm inclined to think it's irritation from the increased number of stinky diapers he's been making here lately, which I am inclined to attribute to teething his canines. So we have been letting him run around w/o a diaper on this afternoon, which he most enjoyed and we didn't mind except when we'd here the sound of running water and then "uh-oh." And when he pooped in his high chair at the dinner table. (We had a blanket under him just in case, but still...better things can interrupt one's dinner.) The worst part, though, is when it's diaper changing time, he screams bloody murder when you try to clean him up. Guess I would too. So we are putting athlete's foot cream on him, letting his hiney air out, and hoping for the best. Sorry that the biggest part of this entry is about our son's butt!

2) Tried a Philly Cheesesteak Thickburger from Hardee's today. Mmmmm. Wasn't doing Weight Watchers this week. (btw, loss so far is 8lb.)

3) New words: "Ooh-la-la", moon, luna (both mean the same thing), no (surprised it took him so long to start saying that!), and luz (light).

4) If you haven't watched Prison Break (Mondays at 8 on Fox), you are missing a good show. There are no actors that were previously big-names but they are superb actors, every one. And the plot is not so bad either.

5) Stepdad is going to have arthroscopic knee surgery tomorrow morning. Dad, if you read this, we're praying for you, we love you, and hope you're back on your feet again soon.

6) Specifically for Big Brad: I read in Reader's Digest today that 81% of women in Oklahoma can't live without their hairspray, compared with 31% of women in the rest of the nation. In case Alex ever asks it on Jeopardy.

7) Jesus got a $0.75 raise at work starting last week. Long overdue. Hooray!

8) My son would rather be with his father than with any other human being alive. He cries the second he sees Hubs putting on his jacket to go to work. Most pitiful cry: "Ooooohhhhh, Papá, oooohhhh, Papá...." and huge tears. The second Hubs pulls in the driveway Daniel is at the door awaiting his arrival.

9) Reminder: May 1 is A Day without Immigrants. If you have to work, that's understandable, but your impact can still be felt if you don't buy or sell anything. That is, if you support "la causa." If not, go out and spend all your money!

10) Happy early birthday to Krisy Kent!

Tuesday, April 25, 2006

Immigration (again!) This one is good, I promise.

I subscribe to Urbana.org and have found numerous articles on various topics that have really encouraged me. This one came today and it's about immigration, which as you all know by now, is a topic close to my heart for various reasons. Rather than including the link, I've copied and pasted it for you to read:


Give me your tired, your poor, Your huddled masses yearning to breathe free, The wretched refuse of your teeming shore. Send these, the homeless, tempest-tossed to me. I lift my lamp beside the golden door.

(Words on the pedestal of the Statue of Liberty, from a poem by Emma Lazurus, The New Colossus)

That golden door! How should we make decisions about its opening and closing? The immigration debate is fierce and complicated. But it always has been.

Ellis Island, the companion tourist stop to Lady Liberty and the place where many early immigrants passed from one tempest to another, has some fine exhibits. One of them is of newspaper headlines and hate posters detailing the problems each immigrant pool encountered at the hands of the previous immigrant group.

When one-third of all of Ireland rolled up on these shores in the mid-1800s they were not well-received. They took the jobs no-one else wanted, lived in places no-one else would, and were mocked for their pronunciation of the English language. And then their Catholic faith was ridiculed. Ethnic jokes and epithets were hurled.

Just as the Irish began to build houses, marry off children and begin to see a new generation, the Italians and Portuguese arrived. And the Italians and Portuguese moved into their own slums, and took the jobs that the Irish had abandoned. And the Irish looked down on their inferior grasp of the English language. And then the poor from Eastern Europe arrived, and over three million from Poland arrived and the cycle continued through the decades with the waves of each new immigrant group being scorned and oppressed by the previous immigrant groups.

At the same time of the large influx of Irish, a large wave of Asians came to America, although of course, many had come previously. Their situation was quite different; many came as indentured servants, where they had to repay their debt for passage to the U.S. There was quite a furor raised at their presence and in the late 1800s-early 1900s laws were made banning Asians from becoming naturalized citizens and to prevent further immigration from Asian countries.

It all sounds eerily familiar. Perhaps the cards are stacked more highly against immigrants when Lady Liberty invites the “wretched refuse” along with the “huddled masses.” Of course, we can be compassionate to the “huddled masses.” But who wants to embrace or extend a hand to “wretched refuse”? This is especially the case, when our livelihoods are threatened, either economically or by terrorism.

In December, the US House of Representatives passed the Border Protection, Antiterrorism and Illegal Immigration Control Act of 2005 (H.R. 4437). The bill calls for tough treatment of illegal aliens, making it a felony, punishable by a year in jail. Humanitarian aid given to illegal immigrants can get you up to 5 years in prison. Along with other criminal penalties, the bill calls for a bolder, bigger, better fence to be constructed along the U.S. border with Mexico. This prompted people, immigrant and citizen alike, to gather in many cities around the country and voice their concern. Undocumented workers are getting fired for having skipped a day of work to participate in a rally.

But just at the end of March a Senate Judiciary Committee voted and passed a plan that is a vast improvement: it allows for pathways to citizenship for those already here, there would not be penalties for humanitarian and church groups helping undocumented workers, nor does it put the “criminal” label on immigrants here trying to better their lives. This plan is compassionate and breathes dignity into the debate.

But beyond bills and laws, what does the Bible say?

We are instructed in Scripture, time and again, to care for orphans, widows, the poor and aliens. The latter, as a reminder to Israel that they were, although God’s chosen people, once foreigners in a land not their own. In the Old Testament, Israel’s identity was wrapped up in the identity of their father, Abraham, who left his father, family and all that was familiar to sojourn in a place, a foreign place, God would show him. When they finally came into the promised land, God reminded the Hebrews that, like in the Garden, they were to till the land, take good care of it, steward it, for God owned the land, but they were merely sojourners. “For the land is mine; with me you are but, aliens and tenants.” (Lev. 25: 23)

In Lev 19: 34 we read, “The alien who resides with you shall be to you as the citizen among you; you shall love the alien as yourself, for you were aliens in the land of Egypt.” Christine Pohl in Making Room (Eerdman’s, 1999) writes of the plight of aliens during that time, “Their status was precarious and their well-being depended on the willingness of the community to welcome them into its life.” And so God gave instructions that when harvest time came, the edges of the field should be left for the poor and alien (Lev 19: 9-10).

When instructions are given regarding the first fruits of the land, the alien is included. In Deut. 26 when the first fruits are brought to the priest as an offering, aliens are invited to the celebration. The Lord commands that a portion of the bounty goes to aliens, orphans and widows, “so that they may eat their fill within their towns.” (11-13).

And in Lev 25:35 an interesting twist appears: when a kinsman falls into difficulty and must become dependent on another, God’s people are instructed, “you shall support them; they shall live with you as though a resident alien.” The word “alien” does not have a particularly positive ring. So, at first glance, we may read this as though we should be polite, but don’t let them take advantage. But this is clearly not God’s intention, as he seems to always be prompting us to care for aliens as if they were family.

And of course, Jesus, in his own words says, “I was a stranger and you welcomed me.” (Matt 25: 35)

After many of these decrees in the Torah, the phrase is written, “I am the Lord your God, who brought you out of the land of Egypt.” It is a reminder to Israel, “Remember where you were. Remember your plight. I acted because I love you. I brought you out for a purpose.”

Indeed, the current immigration debate is very political. And the role of the church is not always the same as the role of the state. It is difficult to know where to stand. But the Scripture seems to be clear on how we should treat the strangers who are among us. We too, are only sojourners in this world; we exist by the graciousness of a merciful God. How can we not be moved with compassion for the plight of those, who like our forefathers and mothers, seek only a better life for their families? For are they not like us: made in God’s own image? Welcoming immigrants, illegal or otherwise, is like welcoming Jesus. Do we not have something they need? Isn’t there enough to go around, really? Have we not ourselves been brought out of Egypt?

Thursday, April 20, 2006

Update

My boy's new words: "hello"; "pillow"; "apple"; "elbow". His favorite continues to be "GO!" usually hollered at the top of his lungs.

He has already gotten about 10x darker than me from being out in the sun. Oh, to have Mexican melanin.

I hear my name being called from the wee one's bed. Better go check it out. More later...

Wednesday, April 12, 2006

Immigration

I found a really thought-provoking magazine article online that I thought sums up what the Christian's attitude ought to be regarding illegal immigration. I found it by way of a website that Burly (http://burlyfamily.blogspot.com) put on his blog.

In our family we are obviously pro-immigrant, even pro-illegal immigrant, and against illegal immigration, if that makes any sense at all. Kind of like saying we support the soldiers but not the war, I guess. My Mexican husband and I agree that if you can come here legally then you should. It makes things a lot easier for you in the long run. Just getting here means crossing through desert or swamp on foot for several days, watching out for the Arizona Minutemen or their counterparts, being careful not to step too close to a Western Diamondback rattler or scorpion, drinking water from mud puddles or troughs laden with cow spit, having no food, and that's all apart from Border Patrol (or as they call them, chiles verdes -- green chiles). Sometimes even being captured (rescued?) by Border Patrol is a welcome thing. So obviously it's a lot more comfortable to cross with a visa in hand. However, it is not always as simple as that. Not when it takes years to get a visa, and what do you do in the meantime with not enough money to survive?

Anyway, click on this link to read the article and tell me what you think:
http://www.worldmag.com/articles/11730

El pueblo unido jamás será vencido.

Monday, April 10, 2006

A Day without Immigrants

On May 1, immigrants and their supporters are staging a strike from working, buying, and selling in order to demonstrate just what this people group means to America. I am asking that, as far as your faith will allow, that you participate. Thanks.

Thursday, April 06, 2006

New words & more

My boy's new word is "cookie." Don't think we feed our kid Oreos (no...those are for Mom!!) . They're Gerber animal crackers, so they're actually nutritious. He just thinks he's getting junk food.

Last week on weigh-in night I had dropped 0.6lb. Not a lot but better than a gain of the same. Tonight is weigh-in again. My rule is this: if I've lost, I go buy whatever junk food I want and eat it all. Then the next day I'm back on the wagon. If I've gained, no junk food. Gives me a reason to behave through the week. So far it's worked.

Yesterday Dr. Phil had Andrea Bocelli on. Man, can he sing! (Andrea, not Dr. Phil.) At the very end he sang "Can't Help Falling in Love with You" and I thought I would melt. Not even Elvis could sing it like that, and he's the gold standard! If we'd had enough money Andrea Bocelli would've sung at our wedding.

Spent too much money on amazon.com again...but got some awesome books that I can't wait to read. Some on Hispanic-ism, since I've now unofficially become the Hispanic culture consultant at work, and some on maternity/newborn nursing. Also found a very interesting book that is a reverse look at the conquest of New Spain. Translated (the book is in Spanish) it's something like The True Story behind the Conquest of New Spain. I think it's supposed to be the Indians'(Aztec, Inca, Maya, and Quechua tribes) account of the Spanish conquest of Latin America One interesting example: our history books write that the Indians thought the Spaniards were gods and so greeted them with flowers, perfumes, etc. I learned that in school, didn't you? However, the Indians put it differently: "We smelled them before we saw them. Not even with flowers and perfumes could we stand to be near them." Funny how history tends to gloss over things like that.

Hubs was informed by his supervisor (who was informed by their boss) that they now have to start work at 7am instead of 8. He wants them to work 50 hours a week and not 40. So we are adjusting to getting up earlier...grrr. Hopefully this will translate into a bigger paycheck as we could certainly use the $$ for savings. But that doesn't mean we like the longer days. I don't like not seeing him very much in the mornings!